I have a beautiful story to tell. It all began at the last place I’d expect, Ocean Bar. My first taste of night life in Takoradi was bittersweet. A group of Semester at Sea kids flooded the local bar and a mix of cultures was bonded over beers and conversations. Many Ghanaians were selling snacks, artwork, and jewelry. There were young kids at the bar selling snacks, one young boy with a big smile caught my attention. My motherly instinct questioned how old is this boy and what is he doing here on a school night. It was obvious, he was working selling peanut snacks. He had a large plate balanced on the top of his head with stacks of peanut bars aligned in a circle. I motioned him in my direction, I wanted to try this peanut snack; I had seen it before and was curious. I bought one from him and striked up a conversation as I munched on tough peanut brittle snack. His name was Samuel, he’s 12 years old, and his mom makes the peanut snacks. He pointed to his brother Prince who was also selling peanut snacks, they’re sidekicks. I couldn’t help but ask, “What are you doing here so late on a Tuesday night, don’t you have school?” His smile faded as he told me that he does not go to school, that is why he is here making money…so he can someday make enough to pay for books. My mind was in shock, I could not process or comprehend this. I tried not to flip out but internally my mind was racing, emotions flaring, and comprehension non-existent. I had many questions and it seemed as though Samuel wanted me to ask them. I did not hold back, I immediately cared for this boy and he liked the attention. Besides lots of smiles and laughs, here is what I gathered. Samuel does not go to school because he can not afford his textbooks which cost approximately $10 US dollars. He and his brother Prince have been a team selling peanut candy for the past 9 years. The time frame does not make sense to me but I have learned that time and age aren’t very important. Some people don’t know how old they are or the date of their birth. Crazy huh, it’s difficult for my Western mind to grasp. Anyways, Samuel and Prince live in a family of five children and only one of them is currently in school. My next thought was that they just don’t want to go to school and sit in class all day. This sounds about right for many kids’ in America. I was completely wrong, blown away. Samuel wants to go to school so badly, when he talks about school his face lights up. He really likes art and wishes he could study it in school. But, what Samuel really wants to do, is become a pilot. A young child with the dreams to fly ahhhh meaningful in so many ways. His charisma and excitement in telling me about his dreams and desires made me encourage him and want to support him because I do not know anyone else who does. Maybe I am mistaken or fooled but I couldn’t help this intuitive urge. I had to do something.
Throughout this conversation, I could not stop smiling because Samuel wouldn’t stop smiling. He actually tried to control his excitement and smile by biting his lip and pulling his smile shut. I knew this trick and if it didn’t work he would hide his smile with his arm. Of course this made me laugh and smile even more! Maybe Samuel was hiding his excitement to himself, maybe in an attempt to protect himself from disappointment. Underneath my smile was despair and concern. I was heartbroken by his story but filled with joy through our interaction. The sadness settled in with the knowledge that no matter what I do, the deep rooted problem does not change. That this is one child among millions in the world who needs help. But, it would be foolish and lame for me to use this as an excuse not to do something good.
I went to get change from the bar for another peanut snack and got distracted by a man’s paintings. I was talking with him, admiring his work and telling him about my friend Samuel who wants to learn art. I motioned Samuel over, introduced them, and asked for Samuel’s opinion. Joe, the artist picked one up that I had not seen before and Samuel pointed and smiled, “that one”. I would have picked it if he had not said anything; the picture is of people gathering underneath a huge tree. Throughout this interaction, Joe decided to help Samuel paint and I asked if they could write down their names and what they are going to do. Joe wrote down his email and “I will teach Samuel how to paint and that is my number….-Teacher” I told Samuel to write below it and sign his name. He wrote, “I want to study how to paint and learn how to drive airplane-Samuel”. Joe sketched a picture of Samuel by his signature. This is a very special painting that I did not plan on buying.
I didn’t bring much money but decided that I could pass up my drinks for the night for this painting/experience/commitment/new beginning. This brought me to amazement as I looked around at the flow of cash and consumption of drinks. How we spend our money may seem like it only has an affect on us, the buyer. But, truth is every purchase we make whether at a small bar in Ghana or department store in America, has huge implications. We are all connected and our decisions have an affect on others even if we are blind to see them. For me, I could put my money towards another drink or towards one of Joe’s paintings. I could invest it in someone else or myself. The amount of money is so insignificant in comparison to the amount I spend on frivolous things. Here is an upsetting fact “Americans spend $8 billion a year on cosmetics-2 billion more than the estimated total needed to provide basic education for everyone in the world”. Everyday, my encounters with the world make me question my way of life. All the unnecessary things I have in my life and all the needs of people worldwide. It is not something I have just noticed to be inherently wrong but it makes me re-evaluate my position in this world. I believe if I have extra, it is my moral obligation to give to those who need. I was provided with an education and every aid necessary, if there is another human being who got the bad end of the stick and I have access to help them, I must. It is not even a question. I do not see the difference between Samuel and I or anyone. We are all human beings; all were children to begin with.
Next Day: 2/10
This morning, I woke at 6:40 with the plan to meet Samuel and Prince at the gate of the port. I would meet them at 7AM sharp and we would quickly go downtown and buy textbooks before I had to leave at 8AM. I was already stressed about the time crunch and to make matters worse, my friend backed out on coming with me. Determined to not let these boys down, I walked down to the gangway to find it raining outside. I was unsure about going alone and decided to go back to wake up my friend Miller. It was already 7AM and I was stressing, I had to make it back by 8. It takes about 15 minutes to walk to the gate, which is the end of the port. Miller suggested running to the end, I laughed and started running in my sandals, in the rain. True determination. After a couple minutes, we hitched a ride with a Canadian worker and he took us to the gate of the port. Filled with adrenaline, we searched for Samuel and Prince in the rain and we bombarded with everyone except them. I found our friend Joe the painter and asked him where they could be. He knew that we were going to meet up and said they probably would show up later in the afternoon when the rain clears out. There was only one problem with this, my FDP ended at 4 and on ship time was at 6. I explained to Joe the situation and he said he would talk to them. I was disappointed but there was not much else I could do, I gave it a good try.
Somehow it was meant to be, my FDP ended two hours which gave me just enough time to pursue Samuel and Prince. I didn’t know who was coming or exactly what was going to happen. I just knew that I had to meet Samuel and Prince at the gate to fulfill my commitment. I tried to find someone to come with me and could not manage to find a soul. I could not let down these boys, I was determined to go and the moment I decided to move forward without a companion, an angel came into my life. It was my friend Laura, she was doing some last minute shopping at the port vendors and I knew she was my only hope. I briefly and frantically explained where I was going and that I needed a companion. Confused and unsure about what I was talking about she freely dropped the items she was going to buy and joined. I was so thankful at this moment; I immediately knew that Laura was a true friend. Laura and I, both blonde, blue eyes, and pale complexions arrived at the gate with a mission and a time constraint. We were immediately bombarded with people haggling us to buy something. I was stressed and hoped for Samuel and Prince to be there. Samuel’s bright smile showed through the crowd, he and prince ran over. They both had plates of peanut bars balanced on their heads and grins that made them look like they might loose balance. I gave Samuel a hug and his impressive balance sustained. In the middle of people haggling us, we coordinated a plan shouting over the chaos. We found a great taxi cab driver who gave us a deal, he wanted to help us help them. Trying to escape the madness we walked over to the cab with the plan to make it back in one hour. We would head over to Samuel and Prince family’s home to meet their mom and then head to textbook store. I was confused of why we would go to their home but with such a strong community and safe experience in Ghana; my heart ruled my head. Still a little weary and unsure I prayed for everything to work out, for the good to prevail. The taxi cab driver, Emannuel was very helpful and knew of their family. Erik, a friend of Prince and Samuels followed us to the cab, he also wanted textbooks. I told him we didn’t have enough seats in the cab and I was sorry. I felt really bad but didn’t want this to turn to a free for all. As I entered the cab, I heard Laura say “Hey Erik, want to share the front seat with me, we can both fit”. Surprised about this, but more so surprised with myself in the fact that I had turned Erik away from a chance to get texts books only for an extra ten dollars, an extra squeeze. I was so thankful an amazed with Laura. We all fit in the cab and were well on our way for an adventure.
Within about five minutes, after driving through town we entered their neighborhood, a dirt road lined with shanty tin and wood infrastructure. We arrived at their home, a shack in the middle of many. A woman was sitting outside and smiled when we arrived. As we climbed out of the cab, this woman greeted us with joy. She shook my hand and did not let go, just held it and smiled. More and more family members came outside to greet us. Three mothers, two with babies on their backs and many children came out to see the excitement. We were greeted with warmth, love, and appreciation. I finally deciphered the mother of Prince and Charles, she stood next to me, a beautiful older woman with grey hair and a baby on her back. She shook my hand and held it, with her other hand she brushed the hair off my cheek and then with two hands held my right hand and said, “God bless you”. So clear and sincere, I realized the impact of this moment. My eyes welled with tears, this was too much for me to conceive. Every family member gathered around and smiles of appreciation shined through. After today, these boys would go to school.
Within about five minutes, after driving through town we entered their neighborhood, a dirt road lined with shanty tin and wood infrastructure. We arrived at their home, a shack in the middle of many. A woman was sitting outside and smiled when we arrived. As we climbed out of the cab, this woman greeted us with joy. She shook my hand and did not let go, just held it and smiled. More and more family members came outside to greet us. Three mothers, two with babies on their backs and many children came out to see the excitement. We were greeted with warmth, love, and appreciation. I finally deciphered the mother of Prince and Charles, she stood next to me, a beautiful older woman with grey hair and a baby on her back. She shook my hand and held it, with her other hand she brushed the hair off my cheek and then with two hands held my right hand and said, “God bless you”. So clear and sincere, I realized the impact of this moment. My eyes welled with tears, this was too much for me to conceive. Every family member gathered around and smiles of appreciation shined through. After today, these boys would go to school.
At the bookstore, the boys ran wild in the small room, they knew exactly what to get. They each got plain notebooks with paper, mathematics books, a social studies book to share, pencils, and a math tool kit. Samuel picked out a small thing of markers; this made me so happy and reminds me of our first conversation. He told me that he like art. The smiles on their faces were unlike any I have experienced, filled with joy and appreciation. The total for all three boys books came out to 55.30 Cedies(approx $35US dollars). I put in 50, Laura put in 5, and Samuel contributed the 30 pesois. I was out of money and Laura had just enough, 15 Cedies left to pay for the taxi back. It worked out perfectly. The fact that Samuel contributed to his textbooks is so special. Although it was a small amount, he worked for that money and invested in his own education. I don’t quite know how describe all of this. My emotions and feelings were all over the place not easy to identify. It was hard to say goodbye to my new friends whom I grew so fond of.
Here is a little info on each one:
Samuel. I just love this kid, he has the biggest smile and sweetest spirit. Every time I made eye contact with him he would burst into a huge smile but would cover it with his hand or bite his lip. I would smile back and he couldn’t sustain hiding his smile. Samuel is 12 years old, has worked with his brother selling peanut cakes for 9 years. He loves art and mathematics. He wants to be a pilot when he grows up.
Prince. Samuel’s brother and side kick in selling peanut cakes for the past 9 years. His favorite subject is mathematics and I believe he has only had two terms of schooling. Prince wants to be a doctor when he grows up.
Erik. The boy who I turned down initially, but he found a way in and I am so thankful. He sells peanut cakes with Prince and Samuel; their families are neighbors. He is 14 years old and his favorite subject is biology. Erik wants to be an engineer when he grows up.
I hope for the best in their education, for education is their only hope. I know that Samuel will attract many more helpers in his life with that smile of his. I have had a difficult time grasping their life situation and lack of opportunity. I am still surprised that the reason for not going to school is that they could not afford textbooks, which only cost $10 US dollars. For a little over $30 dollars, an hour of my time, I could help these kids. I do not know the impact of this or what will happen when they need more textbooks. I may just be another “rich” American along the way who could provide some help but I know this is not the case because what happened today goes beyond any sum of money. It was the interaction, the meeting of family, the act of taking time out of my life to help these kids get by. Throughout my stay in Ghana, so many people went completely out of their way to help me out. They did not have to but they did. I think about how many people helped me throughout my life. I never had to buy my own books or supplies; someone older always took care of me. Today, I was that person and I could give back. I feel a little older, wiser, and lighter. It felt good to give up some money that I had intended to buy on souvenirs and invest it in something so much better than material item. To see the boys smile and giggle with excitement brings so much joy to my life. Reflecting on today, I understand that although it was so simple, it took effort. I took a large risk and pursued it with determination, for the rest, I left my trust in God. Faith and good intentions prevailed into a beautiful experience and outcome. Almost like magic everything worked perfectly.